Temanku Menikah Part 1
Halo~ sudah lama tidak berjumpa lewat tulisan.
Banyak yang ingin ditulis namun niat masih kurang besar untuk realisasinya...
Tepat Sabtu (7/9/2019) dan Minggu (8/9/2019) ada dua sahabat gue yang akhirnya melepas masa lajangnya.
Lucunya, kalau dipikir lagi ceritanya hampir sama. Dua-duanya tidak membutuhkan waktu yang lama untuk akhirnya memutuskan mereka sudah mantap dengan pilihan masing-masing. Can you imagine that? To finally make this kind of decision? I personally think it was definitely scary, but then again when you're sure, you are sure, right?
Huruf depan teman yang menikah juga sama, 'N', Nabilla dan Nimas.
Nabilla menikah di hari Sabtu, sedangkan Nimas di hari ini (Minggu). Let me tell you guys, I am tired. Even though I am not the one whom married - imagine it for them. 2 constructive days of walking in heels and wearing makeup, I am proud of myself.
Yang satu nikahnya di Jakarta dan malam, yang satu di Bogor dan acaranya pagi. God bless me.
Let me give you a brief history of my friendship with them...Let's start with Nabilla first since her wedding comes first.
Nabilla is a friend from my college days. We spent 2 semesters in a class and 2 more years in another class (if you know what I meant). Dulu jaman semester 1-2 our friendship was not as tight as now, we're good friends, but then majoring kind of separate us. Then added 2 more years together, we were put in the same class - again. The sense of familiarity made us close. She's always the silly - hyperactive one, you know, the one who's never shut up and always had the silliest ideas.
We've to grow close over the past 2 years. We have shared so many stories, laugh, and tears. I have cried in front of her in times where it was really rough - ugh I'm crying right now. There are 3 of us, Muthia, but her story I shall save for later ;).
Nabilla is always late. Seriously, it irritates me at first but after so many 'lates' I just made peace with it. Selain bersahabat dengan keterlambatan, Nabilla ini anak yang panikan tapi kalem, tapi panikan. Kzl. Kadang kalau lagi panik suka banget mikir kejauhan sehingga melewatkan bagian penting dari suatu hal. Gue cuma bisa 'Bil..............'.
Kejadian gila yang paling recent dia lakukan adalah menawarkan orang asing - yang baru dia temui hari itu juga dan hanya beberapa jam bersama untuk nebeng mobil dia aja. This girl is too nice for her own good - when I said nice, I meant she did something that she did not really thought about all the consequences well. Saat itu gue dan Muthia langsung kehabisan kata-kata dan cuman saling pandang sambil chat 'Nabilla ini bodoh banget ya asli' sambil geleng-geleng kepala gak habis pikir sama kelakuan anak ini.
Again, gue dan Muthia udah pasrah dengan segala kelakuan absurdnya dia.
At the end of the day, I'm still grateful for her, seriously.
(basically, all 3 of us were so similar yet different, we're similar in our own way).
If you were friends with her, you would be surprised that she was the first one to get married. But there she is at the pelaminan standing with her husband.
All her usual silly self was gone, she stands so gracefully-beautiful as a grown woman who is about to start a new journey of her own.
I am so happy for her.
Nabilla, now that you have found the man you could love for the rest of your life and love you for the rest of his, the man who will watch over you and take care of you, the man who will grow old with you, I wish you nothing but happiness bil.
There is no life without problems, but I hope no matter how complicated and big it is, you (both) will overcome it well.
You are now someone's wife and someday you will be someone's mother, but I assure you I will always be your friend. I got your back girl, always.
love,
Anita.
Here's some photo from the night:
Banyak yang ingin ditulis namun niat masih kurang besar untuk realisasinya...
Tepat Sabtu (7/9/2019) dan Minggu (8/9/2019) ada dua sahabat gue yang akhirnya melepas masa lajangnya.
Lucunya, kalau dipikir lagi ceritanya hampir sama. Dua-duanya tidak membutuhkan waktu yang lama untuk akhirnya memutuskan mereka sudah mantap dengan pilihan masing-masing. Can you imagine that? To finally make this kind of decision? I personally think it was definitely scary, but then again when you're sure, you are sure, right?
Huruf depan teman yang menikah juga sama, 'N', Nabilla dan Nimas.
Nabilla menikah di hari Sabtu, sedangkan Nimas di hari ini (Minggu). Let me tell you guys, I am tired. Even though I am not the one whom married - imagine it for them. 2 constructive days of walking in heels and wearing makeup, I am proud of myself.
Yang satu nikahnya di Jakarta dan malam, yang satu di Bogor dan acaranya pagi. God bless me.
Let me give you a brief history of my friendship with them...Let's start with Nabilla first since her wedding comes first.
Nabilla is a friend from my college days. We spent 2 semesters in a class and 2 more years in another class (if you know what I meant). Dulu jaman semester 1-2 our friendship was not as tight as now, we're good friends, but then majoring kind of separate us. Then added 2 more years together, we were put in the same class - again. The sense of familiarity made us close. She's always the silly - hyperactive one, you know, the one who's never shut up and always had the silliest ideas.
We've to grow close over the past 2 years. We have shared so many stories, laugh, and tears. I have cried in front of her in times where it was really rough - ugh I'm crying right now. There are 3 of us, Muthia, but her story I shall save for later ;).
Nabilla is always late. Seriously, it irritates me at first but after so many 'lates' I just made peace with it. Selain bersahabat dengan keterlambatan, Nabilla ini anak yang panikan tapi kalem, tapi panikan. Kzl. Kadang kalau lagi panik suka banget mikir kejauhan sehingga melewatkan bagian penting dari suatu hal. Gue cuma bisa 'Bil..............'.
Kejadian gila yang paling recent dia lakukan adalah menawarkan orang asing - yang baru dia temui hari itu juga dan hanya beberapa jam bersama untuk nebeng mobil dia aja. This girl is too nice for her own good - when I said nice, I meant she did something that she did not really thought about all the consequences well. Saat itu gue dan Muthia langsung kehabisan kata-kata dan cuman saling pandang sambil chat 'Nabilla ini bodoh banget ya asli' sambil geleng-geleng kepala gak habis pikir sama kelakuan anak ini.
Again, gue dan Muthia udah pasrah dengan segala kelakuan absurdnya dia.
At the end of the day, I'm still grateful for her, seriously.
(basically, all 3 of us were so similar yet different, we're similar in our own way).
If you were friends with her, you would be surprised that she was the first one to get married. But there she is at the pelaminan standing with her husband.
All her usual silly self was gone, she stands so gracefully-beautiful as a grown woman who is about to start a new journey of her own.
I am so happy for her.
Nabilla, now that you have found the man you could love for the rest of your life and love you for the rest of his, the man who will watch over you and take care of you, the man who will grow old with you, I wish you nothing but happiness bil.
There is no life without problems, but I hope no matter how complicated and big it is, you (both) will overcome it well.
You are now someone's wife and someday you will be someone's mother, but I assure you I will always be your friend. I got your back girl, always.
love,
Anita.
Here's some photo from the night:
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